Adam Lane Smith is a psychotherapist and an author. Adam has helped thousands of patients and couples to deal with problems from childhood, their relationships and their sex lives. He also writes amazing Twitter threads filled with insights from his time as a therapist and today we get to go through some of my favourites. Expect to learn why having sex with a man on the first date won't make him fall in love with you, why it shouldn't be a surprise to most men when their partner divorces them, the psychological effect of relying on daycare for newborn babies, why men don't understand how female communication works, whether love or respect is more important in a relationship and much more... Timestamps: (00:00) Should Women Have Sex on the First Date? (07:06) People Who Are Obsessed with Politics are Messy & Unhappy (11:16) The Danger of Avoiding Uncomfortable Conversations (17:36) How Our Relationships Are Being Systematically Destroyed (24:18) Both Men & Women Hate the Dating Scene (30:49) The Key to Protecting Your Marriage from Divorce (34:36) Why Men Are Demonised in Marriage Therapy (41:21) The Disadvantages of Sending Your Baby to Daycare (47:01) Most Men Don’t Understand Female Communication (52:10) The Difference in Perspectives of Past Romantic History (57:41) Do Men Want Respect More Than Love? (1:01:06) The World Doesn’t Want Men to Have Any Power (1:12:33) If You Love Your Children, You’d Let them See Your Separated Partner (1:16:19) Why Nice Guys Finish Last (1:22:17) Where to Find Adam Extra Stuff: Get my free Reading List of 100 books to read before you die → https://chriswillx.com/books/ To support me on Patreon (thank you): https://www.patreon.com/modernwisdom - Episodes You Might Enjoy: This Is How To Master Your Life - David Goggins - #577: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Goggins⁠⁠⁠ How To Destroy Your Negative Beliefs - Dr Jordan Peterson - #712: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Peterson⁠⁠⁠ The Secret Tools To Hack Your Brain - Dr Andrew Huberman - #700: ⁠⁠⁠lnkfi.re/SN-Huberman⁠⁠ Get in touch. Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/chriswillx Twitter: https://www.twitter.com/chriswillx YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/modernwisdompodcast Email: https://chriswillx.com/contact/ Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices